Talk about a hard one to get. Think positive, speak what you want, speak it into existence, the secret, there are countless mantras that address the fact that it really is a choice to having postivity in one's life. I think the turning point to my efforts to be more positive in my life came when I read an article that said, there is no such thing as regrets, just choices. Now that is priceless! The truth is that when things seem so bleek it's your choice, your response to the situation that determines how you will feel as you proceed.
I remember the days I would go to work at Ryder Truck Rental and share some of the episodes that I'd experienced that past weekend in my dating life and life in general and even now when things happen I feel like I'm living a soap opera. But in the last year, I laugh at those chapters in my life not episodes, because now I respond with action and not fall into a hole of trying to figure out what went wrong or what did I do wrong. It's about where do we go from here.
While I'm not going to get all religious, I have to mention faith here, because if you truly have it the journey is always more enjoyable, because you know the outcome is what YOU believe will happen. And guess what it works. Life has never been better. And it's just that simple. No go choose to make it a great day.
I am in total agreement to what you are speaking, my sista! Where we are in life, is by our many choices. So if you're not where you want to be, its your CHOICE to make that change, choose WISELY!!!!
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